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what is Solitude?

Solitude refers to the state of being alone, often by choice, without the presence of others. It is different from loneliness, which is typically associated with negative feelings of isolation or abandonment. Solitude can be a positive, peaceful and enriching experience, offering time for introspection, relaxation, creativity, and personal growth.

Why do we need Solitude?

People seek solitude for various reasons, such as:

• Self-reflection: To think deeply about one’s life, decisions, or emotions.
• Recharging: For introverts or those needing a break from social interaction, solitude can be restorative.
• Creativity: Artists, writers, and thinkers often find inspiration and focus in solitude.
• Mindfulness: Being alone can help individuals practise meditation or mindfulness without distractions.

The world today – the online community – believes it has “something” to say that is important. We are bombarded daily with headlines, newsletters, emails and ads promoting the things you should or need in your life. You should or need to watch/read/listen/subscribe/buy/eat etc these things to enrich your life without FOMO.

Wikipedia defines (FOMO) Fear of missing out as the “feeling of apprehension that one is either not in the know or missing out on information, events, experiences, or life decisions that could make one’s life better.” Some say FOBO – the Fear of Better Options.

A Monk’s Perspective – with Venerable Nick Keomahavong from https://nickkeomahavong.com/

5 Things To Make Your Mornings Better | A Monk’s Perspective

Nowadays, the topic of morning routines are beginning to gain traction due to social media. Morning routines are important; however, many morning routines come from the “productivity” point of view. In this video, Phra Nick wanted to share the morning routine of Buddhist monks and training within the monastery. In this video, Phra Nick gives you 5 morning routines tips that you can add to your daily life along with the overall intention and purpose of our morning routines.

a poem by Rudyard Kipling

Rudyard Kipling’s (1865-1936) inspirational poem ‘If’ first appeared in his collection ‘Rewards and Fairies’ in 1909. The poem ‘If’ is inspirational, motivational, and a set of rules for ‘grown-up’ living. Kipling’s ‘If’ contains mottos and maxims for life, and the poem is also a blueprint for personal integrity, behaviour and self-development.

‘If’ is perhaps even more relevant today than when Kipling wrote it, as an ethos and a personal philosophy. Lines from Kipling’s ‘If’ appear over the player’s entrance to Wimbledon’s Centre Court – a poignant reflection of the poem’s timeless and inspiring quality.

It’s about abundance, too

Words by Carl Phillips.

I believe deeply in the power of simplicity. It’s become a passionate subject for me. One I have written many articles and books about. Broader than this, it’s become a framework for how I try to live. Something I am always seeking to bring into my life.

One part of this simplicity journey is about discarding. Finding ways to remove things from our lives. Whether they be possessions, commitments, toxic relationships, or something else we realise is dragging us down. Reduction is an important step.

June 21, 2021 by Marty Kendall